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The Hidden Truth about My Mental Illness & How I Am Healing

The Hidden Truth about My Mental Illness & How I Am Healing Relationship Redemption Round Mental illness is something few wish to discuss, especially me considering in my younger years I would be incredibly private about my flaws. I mean who isn’t. I guess I am at peace or in recovery stage so I amContinue reading “The Hidden Truth about My Mental Illness & How I Am Healing”

Lazy Ass Men

Dating today is really difficult. Men expect quite a bit from a woman, and commitment seems to lack. I mean real commitment – not just committed while you in front of me, while you behind my back too. If you are in a committed relationship – then privacy is out the window. Have some damContinue reading “Lazy Ass Men”

The Sad Side of Seduction

I had seen a meme about a woman trying to seduce her husband while he was watching TV. I have never understood that. like if your woman is trying to be sexy, why do men have to act like they don’t see shit? Men and monkey game shit. You know what that does? It causesContinue reading “The Sad Side of Seduction”

How Dating Could Destroy My Diet

Now this post may come off bitchy, so you must read through to the end to really understand my point of view. And once you get done, even if you are married, you will most likely understand. Now you might say to yourself – just because you get involved with someone doesn’t mean you haveContinue reading “How Dating Could Destroy My Diet”

WTF Fried Banana Butter Pecan Homemade Ice Cream Recipe???

Fried Banana Butter Pecan Ice Cream OOOooooo ICE CREAM So a little history on ice cream – I am about that life. There is never not a good time for ice cream. I mean seriously, ice cream is one of the most universal foods in the world. And the options are endless, especially when youContinue reading “WTF Fried Banana Butter Pecan Homemade Ice Cream Recipe???”

Cheesy Chasing Omelette

Cheesy Chasing Omelette When I say cheesy – I mean cheesy. This omelette is actually incredibly easy to make – just – and feeds quite a few people. So if you are on a tight budget – and trying to get creative with your eggs – here ya go. Makes for a beautiful plating –Continue reading “Cheesy Chasing Omelette”

My Turmoil Over The Truth – The Deeper Side

Yes, for me, there is turmoil over the truth. You see, I am very much a truth seeker. And not just in the relationship sector of my life, in just about any aspect of my life. I mean I can read an article, and if it sounds a little off, I am verifying, and researching. Continue reading “My Turmoil Over The Truth – The Deeper Side”

Marley & Me – A Dog’s Tale

Meet Marley I can say without a doubt – he is the love of my life. They always say dogs come into our lives for a reason – and I truly believe that. To be quite honest I was kind of in that in between stage. Wanting a dog, but knowing you can’t really affordContinue reading “Marley & Me – A Dog’s Tale”

Single and Satisfied

I am going to switch gears and eventually I will have these set up in series because there are different parts of my life that I would like to share and one of them is being almost 40 and single. I know OMG a woman’s worst nightmare – just not mine. I have friends thatContinue reading “Single and Satisfied”

Let’s Talk Money – Fiscal Fitness

I don’t have any – but I do have a lot of great advice on how to make poor look pretty. This is the best advice I give anyone in regards to finances. First you need to determine your needs, vs your wants. How do you discover that cause we all need everything? Well ifContinue reading “Let’s Talk Money – Fiscal Fitness”