Some of you may think anxiety can be controlled by thought or emotion – and to some degree yes it can be. I utilize methods like meditation, breathing exercises to keep them at bay. Unless I have a bad one. I have closet anxiety. One the surface I look controlled, solid. On this inside itContinue reading “The Anxiety Antidote”
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How The Fashion Industry has Fat People Fkd Up
I have to honestly say – that over the past two years – I have really kind of started paying attention to the fashion industry. I mean I always wanted to look good, but being fat my entire life, the options available to women were pretty much drab and outdated. I don’t know if IContinue reading “How The Fashion Industry has Fat People Fkd Up”
Balanced Life
Why do we invest so much time in caring for others, yet never invest in taking care of ourselves? Self-care is just as important as caring for others. A balance of both makes a balanced life.
My Fat Flappers Went Flapping
I am sitting out back on my porch after uploading a lyric video blah blah blah, anyways – I caught a glimpse of my flabby arms in the video. I’ll be completely honest at first I was going to delete and redo, but then I was like hell nah – it took like 5 timesContinue reading “My Fat Flappers Went Flapping”
A Mother’s Love
Poetry/ Poems by Me These are in reference to my life. My daily struggle. We all have them. Being a mom – well dam like it is hard. When the baby daddy isn’t around – you have to figure it out all alone. I don’t regret one minute. It shapes us for who we are. Continue reading “A Mother’s Love”
Dudes be like nah it wasn’t me – Cheater Cheater
I will never understand why people lie after they been busted? Like what are doing with your life to where you have to be so fake about everything – people don’t even know who you are if you constantly hiding behind lies. I will confuse you with the variety of ish I will be postingContinue reading “Dudes be like nah it wasn’t me – Cheater Cheater”
Fat and Fab My 200LB Loss
The Changes There’s so much to discuss and yet, just like always I never know where to begin. I would like to touch base on my fitness adventures, weight loss, and being fat. So if you are following me on Instagram, Twitter, Tumbler, Youtube, Facebook then you know that I used to be a LOTContinue reading “Fat and Fab My 200LB Loss”
Why Do We Stay In Dead End Relationships?
Probably for the same reason we stay in dead end jobs. Partly because we are lazy, and partly because it is comfortable. I speak from experience. I mean how many times does a man need to screw up before I am like okay – you need to go? Apparently quite a bit. I have beenContinue reading “Why Do We Stay In Dead End Relationships?”
The Suga Woes- Killing it With Keto
A little background about me and food, I love to create. It’s experimental for me. Scientific. Especially sugar. A very universal and divine creation by God that has a wide range of capabilities including but not limited to making your thighs magically grow. Now listen this isn’t a sugar bashing blog post, I mean afterContinue reading “The Suga Woes- Killing it With Keto”
Running Game? You thought! My Relationship Revenge
Running Game Ever had someone who you were with that thought they were running game? But you had already known – and in fact were running game every since you had found out? I am a reactive person. So however you treat me – you are going to get it back. Now I know twoContinue reading “Running Game? You thought! My Relationship Revenge”
I Smell Cakes and Candy 