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Dudes be like nah it wasn’t me – Cheater Rant

I will confuse you with the variety of ish I will be posting about. While like all creative souls – we may have different creative things we enjoy to do. Growing up my brother – he played a guitar and sang and to be honest – he has quite the voice. Well I do notContinue reading “Dudes be like nah it wasn’t me – Cheater Rant”

The Hidden Truth about My Mental Illness & How I Am Healing

The Hidden Truth about My Mental Illness & How I Am Healing Relationship Redemption Round Mental illness is something few wish to discuss, especially me considering in my younger years I would be incredibly private about my flaws. I mean who isn’t. I guess I am at peace or in recovery stage so I amContinue reading “The Hidden Truth about My Mental Illness & How I Am Healing”

Do We Ever Really Find the “One”

Love like what the hell does it even mean? We understand it when it comes to the people we are born into. Our mother’s, father’s, children. That type of love – although challenging sometimes – you typically do not have to question that love. But what about a mate in life? Do we really everContinue reading “Do We Ever Really Find the “One””

Broke and Broken

You know I think the most disappointing thing in life, is when you have friendships that fail because of greed. Now I openly discuss that I am broke, and once broken. We are all just trying to do the very best in making it in life. I had someone who befriended me, and boosted meContinue reading “Broke and Broken”

Deception is for Dickheads Men and Women Alike

I know that I come off as a man hating feminist – but in reality – I love me some men. I just avoid them at all costs because let’s be real – most of y’all have RELATIONSHIP ADD I am tired of getting hurt – so unless you come 100% I don’t want ya!Continue reading “Deception is for Dickheads Men and Women Alike”

Single and Satisfied

I am going to switch gears and eventually I will have these set up in series because there are different parts of my life that I would like to share and one of them is being almost 40 and single. I know OMG a woman’s worst nightmare – just not mine. I have friends thatContinue reading “Single and Satisfied”

The Suga Woes

A little background about me and food, I love to create. It’s experimental for me. Scientific. Especially sugar. A very universal and divine creation by God that has a wide range of capabilities including but not limited to making your thighs magically grow. Now listen this isn’t a sugar bashing blog post, I mean afterContinue reading “The Suga Woes”

Fat and Fab My 200LB Loss

There’s so much to discuss and yet, just like always I never know where to begin. I would like to touch base on my fitness adventures, weight loss, and being fat. So if you are following me on Instagram, Twitter, Tumbler, Youtube, Facebook then you know that I used to be a LOT bigger. 423 poundsContinue reading “Fat and Fab My 200LB Loss”

Leo Waiting on Santa

Leo waiting on Santa 😏 His First Christmas 😘😘💯💯💯🤗🤗🤗 And fyi for any thiefs out there thinking there some thing special under that tree, unless u need Pantene, towels, mousse, blankets, or clearance clothes u would be wasting ur time hahahaha. I don’t even have cable so there most definitely not any electronics under thereContinue reading “Leo Waiting on Santa”

The Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookie

There’s really only one thing, that even I forget to do sometimes when making chocolate chip cookies but makes the difference ten fold. Melting ur unsalted sweet cream butter with ur brown sugar. 💯💯 I put my butter and brown sugar in a pot and melt together, just until some what blended. And on middleContinue reading “The Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookie”