Author Archives: ismellcakesandcandy

The Anxiety Antidote

Some of you may think anxiety can be controlled by thought or emotion – and to some degree yes it can be.  I utilize methods like meditation, breathing exercises to keep them at bay. Unless I have a bad one.  I have closet anxiety.  One the surface I look controlled, solid.  On this inside itContinue reading “The Anxiety Antidote”

Lazy Ass Men

Dating today is really difficult.  Men expect quite a bit from a woman, and commitment seems to lack.  I mean real commitment – not just committed while you in front of me, while you behind my back too.  If you are in a committed relationship – then privacy is out the window.  Have some damContinue reading “Lazy Ass Men”

My Turmoil Over The Truth – The Deeper Side

Yes, for me, there is turmoil over the truth. You see, I am very much a truth seeker.  And not just in the relationship sector of my life, in just about any aspect of my life.  I mean I can read an article, and if it sounds a little off, I am verifying, and researching. Continue reading “My Turmoil Over The Truth – The Deeper Side”

My Deepest Demon for You to See

You know over the past few months if you scroll through my news feed you will notice an incredible transformation, and I’m not talking about the Weightloss I am talking about me coming out of my cacoon. You see my entire life I held a Secret deep inside. Well that works out great till yourContinue reading “My Deepest Demon for You to See”

Cheesy Chasing Omelette

Cheesy Chasing Omelette When I say cheesy – I mean cheesy. This omelette is actually incredibly easy to make – just – and feeds quite a few people. So if you are on a tight budget – and trying to get creative with your eggs – here ya go. Makes for a beautiful plating –Continue reading “Cheesy Chasing Omelette”

The Sad Side of Seduction

I had seen a meme about a woman trying to seduce her husband while he was watching TV. I have never understood that. like if your woman is trying to be sexy, why do men have to act like they don’t see shit? Men and monkey game shit. You know what that does? It causesContinue reading “The Sad Side of Seduction”

A Mother’s Love – Momma Rapper

Poetry/ Poems by Me These are in reference to my life.  My daily struggle.  We all have them.  Being a mom – well dam like it is hard.  When the baby daddy isn’t around – you have to figure it out all alone.  I don’t regret one minute.  It shapes us for who we are. Continue reading “A Mother’s Love – Momma Rapper”

WTF Fried Banana Butter Pecan Homemade Ice Cream Recipe???

Fried Banana Butter Pecan Ice Cream OOOooooo ICE CREAM So a little history on ice cream – I am about that life.  There is never not a good time for ice cream.  I mean seriously, ice cream is one of the most universal foods in the world.  And the options are endless, especially when youContinue reading “WTF Fried Banana Butter Pecan Homemade Ice Cream Recipe???”

Coffee in My Pocket – Funny Video

I average anywhere from 5-6 hours of sleep a night.  I get freaking tired.  I love me some dam coffee.  Doesn’t matter what part of the day.  All day – every day.  I typically have to discipline myself to stick to only having it in the morning. Coffee In My Pocket – Wawa Edition ButContinue reading “Coffee in My Pocket – Funny Video”