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Never Good Enough, Second Child Syndrome

Now before I even get started in this I would like clarify one major thing. I had/have good parents. Loving, crazy, in love with each other, struggling financially but happy caring parents. My parents were married from the time my mom was 18 till my father passed away. My damage did not come from childhoodContinue reading “Never Good Enough, Second Child Syndrome”

Running Game? You thought! My Relationship Revenge

Running Game Ever had someone who you were with that thought they were running game?  But you had already known – and in fact were running game every since you had found out? I am a reactive person.  So however you treat me – you are going to get it back. Now I know twoContinue reading “Running Game? You thought! My Relationship Revenge”

OMG Y’all – I forgot about this one – ~ The Relationship Roundup – an Insight to why I am such a B****

Actually I am sweet as sugar – unless you piss me off. But….I realized something this morning.  I never did share with you guys my very first video, which was just a few months ago.  Now I didn’t rap this one, but the lyrics, I am about to convert it into a singing song. NowContinue reading “OMG Y’all – I forgot about this one – ~ The Relationship Roundup – an Insight to why I am such a B****”

How The Fashion Industry has Fat People Fkd Up

I have to honestly say – that over the past two years – I have really kind of started paying attention to the fashion industry.  I mean I always wanted to look good, but being fat my entire life, the options available to women were pretty much drab and outdated. I don’t know if IContinue reading “How The Fashion Industry has Fat People Fkd Up”

What I am Wearing ~ The Clearance Crusher

I have to say this is one of my favorite outfits.  Partially because it fits, and the other reason – because I blended my classy with my sassy. The outfit is very basic – but the shirt – I bought that from Lane Bryant for  $0.56.  Yes less than 1.00.  You may ask how? IContinue reading “What I am Wearing ~ The Clearance Crusher”

DIY Wedding😍 We get it done

If you have been following me on Instagram then you know my baby girl is getting hitched. Yep I may talk a lot of shit about men but I do believe in love as well and have taught my daughter to love abundantly. Well that bit me in the ass cause here she is gettingContinue reading “DIY Wedding😍 We get it done”