The title means exactly what you think it means. Yes ladies, I am talking about feeling beautiful when you are naked. The moment a lot of women fear, self-hate is a norm for us, but I am here to explain to you how I fixed that – and easily too.
No, I am not going to go into the working out, and all that. I mean in reality – you guys know working out – eating healthy – creates healthy mindsets – I don’t need to be the one to tell you that, I am here to tell you that selfies can cure your self-hate image of yourself, or at the very least help some.
For me, up until my life become a solo mission – I had self-image issues. Every insecurity you could think of – fear of mirrors, no photo please – kind of personality. Well now, not so much, now I am like ooo hey girl hey, to myself. And I did that by playing dress up in some sexy stuff.
OMG I know I sound like I am 5. Here is the thing – IDC. I went and bought some sexy stuff. I mean some pretty sexy stuff. Stuff that I thought was cute – and since I am on a solo mission – trying to find things that fit a man’s vision isn’t a concern for me. I buy it for me. I then took these items home, and try them on. In front of a mirror. I take some videos, snap a few pics, then sit back and look at all that glory God has bestowed upon me.
The first time it was hard. I could see every dimple in my thighs, I could see that my waist was so wide, that my ass looked flat from the backside. There were all these imperfections, but then I noticed something, when I stopped looking at all the little imperfections, and I looked at myself as whole person – I didn’t look bad at all. Like dam girl where you been my whole life?
Yea I know cocky right? I don’t care. Cocky sure the hell beats depression.
Now it takes some time. And this is something I still do to this day. Since my body has been changing from losing the weight – I am discovering a whole new body. Even without the weight loss though – I was/am discovering my naked beauty.
My most vulnerable stage, and I am presenting it to myself. It is a honesty thing. Acceptance thing. This is me, and I am beautiful.
I am undoing what has been told to me for many many years.
I mean after all – why in the hell do we allow someone else’s voice carry more value than our own?
No one knows the inner you – more than you – stop giving people that much authority over your thoughts and emotions. Your voice is stronger than theirs, and your voice will be heard more by you than theirs.
I would like to challenge all my friends to do the same. Find your sexy – within you – by you. Build your confidence. Make is solid – then it can never be shattered.
Flaunt your fabulous 🙂
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