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Outside Is Calling Your Name

Y’all it’s a beautiful day outside. Kick your kids out the house And go enjoy this beautiful dam day. Slay all day. Toss a ball, have some tea. Put the phones down and take it all in. Big momma out 😉

Self Seduction The Things I Repeat To My Self

Life is nothing more than trial and error. In each and everything we do. If you take these as learning lessons then you can find ways to make the situation better. We don’t walk without falling from time to time. We don’t stang strong without knowing what it’s like to lay weak. It is inContinue reading “Self Seduction The Things I Repeat To My Self”

The Anxiety Antidote

Some of you may think anxiety can be controlled by thought or emotion – and to some degree yes it can be. I utilize methods like meditation, breathing exercises to keep them at bay. Unless I have a bad one. I have closet anxiety. One the surface I look controlled, solid. On this inside itContinue reading “The Anxiety Antidote”

Ladies Protect Yourselves

Wear headphones.

Relationship Rants

Ladies, expect more. Speak Up. Stand up for yourself. My bus ride was eventful.

Running Game? You thought! My Relationship Revenge

Running Game Ever had someone who you were with that thought they were running game? But you had already known – and in fact were running game every since you had found out? I am a reactive person. So however you treat me – you are going to get it back. Now I know twoContinue reading “Running Game? You thought! My Relationship Revenge”

How Dating Has Me Fkd Up

I have started to realize that dating doesn’t even appeal to me anymore. Don’t get me wrong, I go through these periods of loneliness to which I venture out – but always find myself coming home, grabbing something I am not supposed to eat, and just looking at Marley and saying “Marley, what the bloodyContinue reading “How Dating Has Me Fkd Up”

Naked Beauty – Find Your Sexy – Self – Love

The title means exactly what you think it means. Yes ladies, I am talking about feeling beautiful when you are naked. The moment a lot of women fear, self-hate is a norm for us, but I am here to explain to you how I fixed that – and easily too. No, I am not goingContinue reading “Naked Beauty – Find Your Sexy – Self – Love”

Why Do We Stay In Dead End Relationships?

Probably for the same reason we stay in dead end jobs. Partly because we are lazy, and partly because it is comfortable. I speak from experience. I mean how many times does a man need to screw up before I am like okay – you need to go? Apparently quite a bit. I have beenContinue reading “Why Do We Stay In Dead End Relationships?”

My Turmoil Over The Truth – The Deeper Side

Yes, for me, there is turmoil over the truth. You see, I am very much a truth seeker. And not just in the relationship sector of my life, in just about any aspect of my life. I mean I can read an article, and if it sounds a little off, I am verifying, and researching. Continue reading “My Turmoil Over The Truth – The Deeper Side”