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The Dirty Hair Diaries

I know how gross a woman that doesn’t wash her hair but once every 7 to 8 days!! Hahaha – that was my first thought too when I came across an article while researching thinning hair. Yep, I said thinning hair. You are probably thinking to yourself dam, she only 37 wth??? Well if youContinue reading “The Dirty Hair Diaries”

A Mother’s Love – Momma Rapper

Poetry/ Poems by Me These are in reference to my life. My daily struggle. We all have them. Being a mom – well dam like it is hard. When the baby daddy isn’t around – you have to figure it out all alone. I don’t regret one minute. It shapes us for who we are. Continue reading “A Mother’s Love – Momma Rapper”

Kitchen Confessions

Being single means I can eat where ever in the house – but I also don’t want to eat alone, so standing and eating to avoiding the glare back from my pups is worth it, cause at least I ain’t alone. hahahaha Kitchen Confessions

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The Anxiety Antidote

Some of you may think anxiety can be controlled by thought or emotion – and to some degree yes it can be. I utilize methods like meditation, breathing exercises to keep them at bay. Unless I have a bad one. I have closet anxiety. One the surface I look controlled, solid. On this inside itContinue reading “The Anxiety Antidote”

Why Do We Stay In Dead End Relationships?

Probably for the same reason we stay in dead end jobs. Partly because we are lazy, and partly because it is comfortable. I speak from experience. I mean how many times does a man need to screw up before I am like okay – you need to go? Apparently quite a bit. I have beenContinue reading “Why Do We Stay In Dead End Relationships?”

My Turmoil Over The Truth – The Deeper Side

Yes, for me, there is turmoil over the truth. You see, I am very much a truth seeker. And not just in the relationship sector of my life, in just about any aspect of my life. I mean I can read an article, and if it sounds a little off, I am verifying, and researching. Continue reading “My Turmoil Over The Truth – The Deeper Side”

Fat and Fab My 200LB Loss

There’s so much to discuss and yet, just like always I never know where to begin. I would like to touch base on my fitness adventures, weight loss, and being fat. So if you are following me on Instagram, Twitter, Tumbler, Youtube, Facebook then you know that I used to be a LOT bigger. 423 poundsContinue reading “Fat and Fab My 200LB Loss”

The Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookie

There’s really only one thing, that even I forget to do sometimes when making chocolate chip cookies but makes the difference ten fold. Melting ur unsalted sweet cream butter with ur brown sugar. 💯💯 I put my butter and brown sugar in a pot and melt together, just until some what blended. And on middleContinue reading “The Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookie”