Author Archives: ismellcakesandcandy

The Anxiety Antidote

Some of you may think anxiety can be controlled by thought or emotion – and to some degree yes it can be.  I utilize methods like meditation, breathing exercises to keep them at bay. Unless I have a bad one.  I have closet anxiety.  One the surface I look controlled, solid.  On this inside itContinue reading “The Anxiety Antidote”

Why Do We Stay In Dead End Relationships?

Probably for the same reason we stay in dead end jobs.  Partly because we are lazy, and partly because it is comfortable.  I speak from experience.  I mean how many times does a man need to screw up before I am like okay – you need to go?  Apparently quite a bit. I have beenContinue reading “Why Do We Stay In Dead End Relationships?”

My Turmoil Over The Truth – The Deeper Side

Yes, for me, there is turmoil over the truth. You see, I am very much a truth seeker.  And not just in the relationship sector of my life, in just about any aspect of my life.  I mean I can read an article, and if it sounds a little off, I am verifying, and researching. Continue reading “My Turmoil Over The Truth – The Deeper Side”

The Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookie

There’s really only one thing, that even I forget to do sometimes when making chocolate chip cookies but makes the difference ten fold. Melting ur unsalted sweet cream butter with ur brown sugar. 💯💯 I put my butter and brown sugar in a pot and melt together, just until some what blended. And on middleContinue reading “The Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookie”